It Is Easy to,

Under The Blanket

It is easy to love someone at their best. 

It is easy to love something that’s shiny. 

It is easy to give your best when you receive the same amount of efforts from the other parties. 

It is easy to stay beside someone with all the giggles and the fun. 

It is easy to stay on the phone for hours with a person who watches movies with you, 

and talk about anything, everyday, 

until it’s become some kind of a ritual that you both do every night until one of you has fallen asleep. 

It is easy to love someone with a perfect smile, 

It is so easy to fall in love with nose kisses and beard rash and that short little giggle that’s used only for you, 

It’s so easy to fall in love with secret moments between the two of you, 

and to get so wrapped up in the world they share with you. 

But a relationship is not always the rainbows and fireworks. 

We’re just humans. 

We’re not designed to be perfectly in a good mood and on our best behavior 24/7.

It is never about finding a perfect person to love. 

Because it is easy to fall in love with someone who puts up their best appearance like a wall, 

and behaves their best so they impress you. 

It is indeed easy to love them when it’s all about the laughs and the good times.

It is not about finding the prettiest, the strongest, the richest, nor the smartest — not even the most romantic ones who will throw a big gesture like what we’ve seen in all those Hollywood movies that thrive on grand gestures. 

True love takes time to develop, several difficult times to see if the person we love stands by us, and a lot of understanding and respect. Attraction and infatuation are not love, no matter how much fairy dust is sprinkled on it to make you believe otherwise.